Taking the time and money to come to a marriage therapist is a big commitment. Many people, especially men, don’t want to talk about their relationship problems with another person. For those who find yourselves in that place there are many books you can read that will help you understand the challenges and promises of being married and how to improve one’s relationship.
One Question That Can save Your Marriage by Harry P. Dunne, Jr.
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny
Hold Me Tight by Susan Johnson
Love Sense by Susan Johnson
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman
10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage by John M. Gottman
Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch
The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real
5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Any of these can be found by simply doing a search of the title. Some are usually on the shelf of most book stores. Of course you are also free to give me a call and set up an appointment. Maybe I can help you get things back on track from the days you were both so hopeful about your relationship and the future.